You cannot wake up every morning and Push! if you are confused and unfocused. You must remain focused on your goal, your family, your dream, your success. Everything starts with our belief systems. If you have a limited belief system, you will live a limited life – STOP. START believing in yourself, then you will have a fulfilling life. Winners are givers and difference makers. They are high-energy achievers who want more in their lives. Align yourself with winners. These will be people outside your comfort zone and they will stretch you immensely. It STARTS with self-awareness. Winners know the choice of being a winner starts with them. You have to take care of yourself before you can take care of others. It is a basic principal of life and it is the truth. Life is about choices. Successful people are timely, and respect others’ time. They are responsible and committed to finishing the task at hand. Think about the friends you know that are committed to God first, family second, and their job third. Chances are you like them, because they are givers, not takers, and they are winners in life, love, and family.
How can I lay the drama down and lead a responsible life plan? If you’re facing adversity, ask yourself where is this taking me? Am I overcoming or being defeated? What behaviors do you need to STOP and what behaviors should you START? Write what you imagine your life would be life if you STOP the negative destructive behaviors and STARTED doing the positive healthier ones.